We Make Our Own FairyTales

you picked up the cup of coffee.
then, you took a sip of it.
enjoying the aroma of the coffee, you looked at the cup that's in your hand.
it reminded you of certain things in your past that you wished you would not remember but still, you couldn't stop yourself.

you reminisced the moments when the cup had a twin, a partner that is. the cup's soulmate. then everything seemed to fall right back into place.

the memories

Fairy tales may or may not exist.
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but we choose the way we want to start writing them. 
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It's the experience that counts. 
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Not the What If's.

你是干物女吗？

何谓干物女？

「干物女」一辭出自日本漫畫,泛指外出工作時形 象光鮮亮麗,回家時卻只想完全放鬆,攤在房間看漫畫 、電視,完全不想出門,也不想與異性交往的職場女性 像香菇、干貝一樣逐漸乾掉,與只想在家中吃、喝、玩樂,不想出門工作,逐漸腐爛的「腐女」有差異。 一般“干物女”最典型的特征是：放弃恋爱，凡是追求轻松，假日几乎都呆在家里，喜欢穿高中时代的运动服躺在沙发，床上，最常做的事情是喝啤酒，看电视或者上网。每天下班后会直接回家，一个人边看漫画，便喝酒。回复短信的字数不但少，而且慢。 口头禅：“麻烦死了”，“随便啦”， “唉，就这么可啦”。

~ 日剧-萤之光, Hotaru no Hikari ~

你是"干物女" 吗?

1. 在家里总是把头发随意夹起, 穿宽松的运动弹性的布料.  [√]

2. 假日不化妆也不穿胸罩, 一晃半年没上美容院. 

3. 要么随便站在厨房吃东西, 要么一个人也敢上饭馆点桌菜. 

4. 出门后要是忘记东西,不脱鞋直接以脚尖踩地板到房间拿.   [√]

5. 最近只有爬楼梯让自己心跳加速,又喜欢上虚拟人物的倾向.

6. 认为在家看漫画,看电视,上网, 比出门跟男人谈恋爱有趣. 

7. 经常会厌倦上班,想逃避但又没办法.   [√]

8. 在社会中,如没摸清楚对方的脾气和个性,就不太愿意做深入交流. 

9. 干什么都会想到网络, 即使上万没事做,也要经常挂在网上.   [√] 

10. 不太愿意遵守一个固定的作息时间,体形要么偏胖要么偏瘦.   [√]

11. 口头禅: " 麻烦死了", "随便啦", " 哎,就这么可以啦".   [√]

12.  时常有突发性的痴迷,对象可能是动漫, 电玩, 书藉, 某个影视明星, 手工制作, 烹调....   [√]

13. 或多或少都会被人评论" 有点闷骚".   [√]

结果:::::

5分以下 : 普通大众型-你的生活很大众化,相对稳定.

5至8分: 潜力型-你及具"干物" 潜质, 差的只是时机.

9 分以上: 强力干物女-好好收场自己吧!

wow!! i've 60% of this characteristic~~~i tink i've the ability to be tis kinda of gal yea..^^

ntg special happen today..juz go to work as usual.I reached at the office around 9.30am, but i went out about 11am to the bank with my cousin to do some stuff. Aiks~~ waited & doin those stuff at the HSBC Bank for 2 hours. Wow..my cousin wanna sign up for a credit card, then she said wanna do a supplementary card for me also...budden, the supplementary card is juz for those who are 18 & above...Unfortunately i m not 18 yet..still got 3 months to reach 18..TT Aiks~~~after finishin those stuff, my cousin ask me to drive back to one-u house..Can u ever imagine me driving from Jalan Ipoh to One Utama??? Me who are stil not yet quite 'pro' in driving drive on the sprint highway. Scary rite?? My cousin who are quite sleepy suddenly awake!! haha...Reach one-u about 30 minutes later..actually v go to my aunt house to continue our office work..budden...v r attracted by the TV..kakaz...actually juz attracted to the forensic heroes II as i've watched till episode 26..& den astro AOD have ep.27 & 28..so...i sure will appreciate this chance lu~~keke..den went to uptown maybank at 4.45pm lidat..after tat, v finally start our work..back home at 9pm..haiz..quite tired today..

haiz..left one more day..seldom sms & talk edi...maybe he's quite busy? i really hope he may free sum time for me, no matter it's juz a while or few minutes to talk to me..hehe...anyway...i'll miss him~~

today juz seems like quite normal, boring...budden i've sumting to do..tat's make some chocolate for him..p.s. tis is a HOME MADE CHOCOLATE yea..keke...when to baker's mall about one hours..bought some chocolates block...spend about 2 hours to do these chocolates...for him..hope he will like it...he seems like quite busy tis few days...buden. i really hope he wil free some time for me as he's goin to uni tis saturday morning...stil left about 5 days...hope i really can c him for the laz time before he go to uni..really hope so..cz it seems like it wil b quite difficult...aiks~~~ pls.....at least a while...few hours....gonna miss him~~~ hope he'll like it~ luv ya~~~

THANKS!!

thanks yea mengyee, it really helps me so much..

一切感激尽在不言中

i duno how to say those touchful words, however, those really meant to me...^^

THANKS YEA MY DEAR FRIEND

^o^

Tagged by mengyee & chinyang

1. Six People to Tag. The victims are
- kah wai
- jooli
- timmy
- chor yau
- kah min
- jason ong

2. Six Things I'm Passionate About
- Friends ~ It's great to hav some true-hearts friends tat may share everything among us. They're only the one who help you when you've problems. Thanks!!
- Online. This wud help me in stop thinking some problems. However, I still have to face to reality after that.
- Music. Some songs may calm me down, some reflect my feelings tat's deep in my heart. It really helps me to express some of my feelings.
- Shopping. Girls love to shop, isn't it??
- Studies. How important is a piece of certificate nowadays??? I dont really like to study actually, especially those syllabus that have to memorize deadly, but I have to. Aiks~~
- Him. I hope i may maintain everything like this, but it's 2 person thingy. Trust may just be the connection among us.

3. Six Things I Say Too Often
- Anything ~ It seems that i duno or maybe lazy in making some choices??
- Haha ~ laugh is better than cry rite??
- Sien ~ Sometimes its really boring & not I purposely say that.
- Yea ~ I usually will agree what others are saying.
- No use lar you ~ I think it sud be..useless lar you. erm..actually it's juz jk actually. I just used to say tis. Sorry if it offence anyone.
- Stupid wan ~ Actually me, mengyee & liwen alwiz say tis phrase since form 3 after the genting trip. We are not really scolding ppl stupid. It's juz some kinda like 'emotions'?

4. Six Books I've Read Recently
- actually i seldom read books now, it's bcoz I'm having my holidays now..^^ jux read some magazines.

5. Six Songs I can Listen to Again and Again
~ actually it may be more than six, let me juz list out some here
- empty
- ni men shi wo de xing guang
- ting shuo ai qing hui lai guo
- happy birthday
- ni zhen me lian hua dou shuo bu qing chu
- yang cong

6. Six Things I Learnt in the Past Year
- Love may be sweet & nice, however, it may be complicated. There is many things hidden within this love thingy. It may hurt others, but may be many people do not know how deep it hurts.
- We have to find a way out in solving our problems & face it cuz it's the reality & the reality wont bluff us. It's better to face it earlier than everything goes worse.
- Sometimes, we may get thingy that we paid for. Budden, it does not consider for everything. Therefore, what we can do is only treat everyone with our true heart as what we get is how others treat you & we don't know anything b4 that.
- Trust worthy is needed in everything. Believe in yourself and others.
- For frenemy, dont talk others bad words behind them. It's quite sarcastic & please respect everyone.
- Our future is control by ourselves. Motivation+courage+effort are important in achieving our goal.

juz back from my work...went to one utama to hav my dinner with my cousin sis & aunt..after my dinner, i passed by a shoe shop.....kakaz....do u know tat i luv shoes damn much??? therefore go in to the shop to hav a look...aiks...buy a shoe again~~~~ i already hav many shoes....n tis is the.......15th shoe of mine....

~ cute ler..my new pump ~

aiks~~didn't bloggin yst..it's because I am too tired after work. I reached home around 9pm...Argh~~~ I'm so tired after workin for the whole day...anyway..i'm not really work from 9-9...i went for my hair cut at 11am..keke...finally have my hair cut after 2 months..my hair is totally out of shape...okay..my cousin sister fetch me to lot 10 for my hair cut..den..went to toni & guy..I've some discussion with the hair-stylist on wat hair-style i gonna have..if i m not mistaken, he's an italian or european..kakaz... 

saw tis?? toni & guy luv UUUUU!!!

I finally have my hair cut after sittin in the saloon for one hour...my hair isn't that thick edi~~~ oh my gosh!!! i doesn't looks like 18~~~ looks so childish..isn't???

do u bliv i m 18???
~ looks so NOOB ~

tagged by kah wai

Rules/Instructions: The selected blogger must say 10 things about themselves. Then tag 5 other blogger to do.

i m crazy (sumtimes)

i luv to shopping

i dislike study but i nid to do so...argh~~~


i luv shoes  ^.^

i m a gud fren, isn't??

hate faker & lier

i seems to be quite emotional

i luv hair-styling

i may be quite patient but pls dun exceed my limit, or else
u wont bliv tat is me when i m angry


i hate guys who seems like a jerk


~ I tagged ~

jon
chin yang
mengyee
weiwei
 choryau

nothing special happen today...
woke up at 8.15am & go to my aunt office to help her...
aiks~~~ it's quite tiring although i juz do some paper work....start workin from 10am til 7.30pm...see how hardworkin i am...i downloaded some click five songs laz nite..it's quite nice...especially empty, jenny & happy birthday..kekez...i nid to say tis again::: KYLE PATRICK IS SO HANDSOME!!!! p.s. dun hit me yea ^.^ i juz received a msg from liwen around 9.32pm...
u know wat she asked me??? she ask me whether wanna go to sing now anot...wow..it's 9.32pm now & she wanna go to ktv~~~~ juz bcoz she's at a super duper boring wedding dinner at V Garden... super duper geng le her...suddenly ask me whether wanna sing anot...However, v didn't go to neway..Impossible v go there late at night & juz both of us singing there rite...tmr is a schooling day for those form 6

THE CLICK FIVE ROCKS~~~~~~~

juz back from genting today...
thanks to liwen again~~~ she won 4 tickets of the click five concert & den she manage to get a free room for us at highland hotel again.. thx liwen.. hey..lets see wat v did at the hotel~~

haha!!! gambling again~~~

we had our dinner at pizza hut before the concert starts...this is some ss photos of me & my frens..

*me*

mengyee & liwen..so cute~~~


~ me & liwen ~

3 of us didn't take pic together for quite long d yea...

wow~~ i went to genting yst for THE CLICK FIVE CONCERT...

THE CLICK FIVE WORLD TOUR 2008

den few of us stay there for a night..really thx liwen, the concert is worth for me...HMM...back to the click five concert, it is damn nice....wuuhuu~~~~kyle patrick is damn handsome!!! i went to the concert with liwen, choryau & wayne..actually it shud b wit mengyee too..budden she dowan go cz wanna hav more patoh time, therefore, v find wayne to substitute her...kekez...wow~~~ the concert is damn high lar... the concert starts around 8.20pm and it ends at 10.30pm.. all of us are damn high there~~ shouted til so loud, except the wayne lar, cant high wan.. liwen & me myself shouted so loud til gonna soundless. However, i think choryau is the one who shouted so sharp & loud~~~ liwen & me are so high especially the encore part... v stood up & rocks wit them...kekez... it's really rox lar the band... their songs are nice too... it's not wasted for goin to the concert. ^.^ this is the first time i went to a concert & it's a concert of a band~~~ guarantee HIGH~~ chor yau & wayne said i & liwen totally siao d...high than them...kakakaz.... KYLE PATRICK really very HANDSOME !!!! ben romas is the emo's wan..he's so emo when he's solo-ing.. however, i n liwen also keep shouting due to the 'high' atmosphere there.. luckily not many ppl who know us are there...kakaz...n den wayne ar...u very cha ler...2 gals also high than u...u stil sit there for the whole concert...here is some pictures of the concert...YEAPPIEE!!!!!

saw kyle there???

~ ben & joey ~

 ~ joe & ben ~

~ ben romans ~ the emo 1



~ joe, kyle, ethan ~




kyle..he's so handsome rite???


~ joe ~

ben romans & Ethan Mentzer

cool man!!!

the laz song they sang b4 the concert ends ~~

CLICK FIVE ROCKS!!!~~~

after the concert, v went to the genting international showroom to catch up with the EURO 2008 (it's actually juz for those above 18)~~ there're some performance before the game start...the dancers there are so so so sexy~~~ since carlsberg is the main official beer of the euro 2008, i & liwen order a can of carlsberg..kekez...2 gals drink carlsberg????(juz drink tis for this time..it's not really that nice.. ^.^) the carlsberg cost us RM11 each lar..so expensive...liwen say v finally did something MATURE at genting d!!! not juz playin outdoor games or wat v usually do... v go to genting for concert + euro 2008~~

me & liwen wit our carlsberg~~

while choryau order an alcohol drink(i forget the name) tat cost him RM18..i think so it's juz 1/8 of the glass..but it is damn 'strong'...therefore he call the gal to add some ice in..buden who knows the gal giv him a glass of ice without anything & she pour away his drink..kakaz...n den da wayne juz order a glass of mango juice..zzz...

v go back to the hotel after 30 minutes the match start, v r quite tired...budden...once v reach the hotel...play cards + watch football again~~~ slept around 3am yst..v went to d good fren restaurant for our brunch today....it's quite nice...

chor yau took tis...almost the same post..

me &liwen

wow~~ this would be the longest post that i've post....anyway..it's a nice trip + concert !!!!

my final exam finally ends~~
in other words, my 1st sem holiday finally starts~~~
i gonna have a month holiday..kekez..
aikz~~ my econs test today is damn sux...
the question is quite easy..but...i stil make mistakes...
especially section C..it's juz the simple demand and supply thingy..budden i think til so complicated..as a result..i did reallocation of resources for that question...oh my gosh!!!  20% gone i think so..i hope i have some marks for tat part...anyway, it has past..forget bout it!!!

it's quite boring today~~ so i online to c wat can i do...dun hav the mood to watch movie actually, budden it's very boring..therefore......log on to skyme to search for some movies..kekes... okay.. i m not goin to watch those tvb or taiwan series..it's juz bcoz i dun feel like watchin them..it's quite boring..n i dun hav the aspire to watch those...therefore, i search for some english movie..eng movies are nicer than those series(the feeling i've 4 tis moment) i found some movies...kakaz...i hope it wont b boring...i juz watched a movie named 'LOVE & OTHER DISASTERS'..it's quite nice..i luv to watch tis kinda movie..kinda romantic ^.^

da gal n guys are pretty n handsome ~~~

okay..i m goin to set up a online boutique...anyone who are interest muz shop there...kekez...buy from me lorhx...

i think i gonna continue with another movie now...chaoz

it's 10.07am now..actually i planned to go for badminton today..
budden...my bro didn't wake me up..so i cant go there lar...
by da way..i also cant drive dere lo...T.T
it's my laz test - ECONS tmr..it's so scary man!!!
actually i've 4 days to study econs..but it seems tat i've wasted 2 days..
therefore, i juz left another 2 days for my econs revision...
aiks~~ i studied for the whole day yst...finally juz left 10pages of econs..
i hope i wil rmb wat i've studied..

after my test tmr..i m totally free!!!
1 month holiday (sorry for being repeatin & repeating)
anyone wanna follow me for shopping??
since now is da mid-year sale, it's time to shopping for me!!!